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Writer's pictureLaura Seymour

Register For Gifts Or Anything Goes?



What are your thoughts on gifts at your wedding day?


Have you thought about whether you would rather register for gifts, or have an anything goes policy when it comes to gifts for your wedding day?

Some couples prefer the structure and convenience of a registry, ensuring they receive items they truly need or want. Others enjoy the surprise and personal touch that comes with an open gift policy, allowing guests to choose something unique and heartfelt.



Registering for gifts:


Here are the top 10 gifts to give at a wedding:


  1. Personalized Keepsakes: Custom items like engraved picture frames or monogrammed towels add a personal touch that the couple will cherish.

  2. Luxury Bed Linens: High-quality sheets or a cozy duvet can make their new home feel extra special and comfortable.

  3. Cooking and Dining Ware: A set of elegant dinnerware or premium cookware can be both practical and stylish for newlyweds who love to entertain or cook together.

  4. Experience Gifts: Consider giving an experience, such as a cooking class, wine tasting tour, or a weekend getaway to create lasting memories.

  5. Home Décor: Beautiful vases, artwork, or stylish furniture pieces can help the couple personalize their living space.

  6. Subscription Services: A subscription to a meal kit delivery, streaming service, or a wine club can be a gift that keeps on giving throughout their first year of marriage.

  7. Travel Vouchers: Help them plan their honeymoon or future vacations with travel vouchers or gift cards to their favorite airlines or hotels.

  8. Smart Home Gadgets: Modernize their home with smart devices like a voice assistant, smart thermostat, or home security system.

  9. Custom Artwork: Commission a piece of art that reflects their relationship or an important moment in their lives, like a portrait or a map of their wedding location.

  10. Charitable Donations: Make a donation in their name to a cause that is close to their hearts, reflecting their values and passions.



Top 10 stereotypical gifts often given at a wedding:


  1. Toasters - While practical, many couples end up with multiple toasters, far more than they could ever use.

  2. Monogrammed Towels - These can be a lovely gesture, but often end up unused or mismatched with the couple's decor.

  3. Picture Frames - While sentimental, picture frames can accumulate quickly, and not every couple has the space to display them all.

  4. Vases - Although useful for flowers, an excess of vases often leads to storage issues.

  5. Wine Glasses - Similar to toasters, couples often receive an overwhelming number of wine glasses, far more than they need.

  6. Candles - Scented candles can be nice, but they’re not always to everyone’s taste and can end up collecting dust.

  7. His and Hers Mugs - These are cute but can be impractical if the couple already has a favorite set of mugs.

  8. Blenders - Another kitchen gadget that many couples receive in multiples, leading to returns or exchanges.

  9. Bathrobes - While cozy, bathrobes are often a personal preference item and can end up unworn.

  10. Decorative Plates - These can be beautiful but are often impractical for everyday use and can take up valuable cupboard space.



These gifts, while given with the best intentions, often lack the personal touch or practicality that makes them truly memorable or useful to the newlyweds.



Money towards your honeymoon:


Asking for money towards your honeymoon for your wedding gift is a practical and heartfelt approach that allows your loved ones to contribute to an experience you'll cherish forever.


Instead of receiving traditional gifts that might not be as meaningful, this gesture lets your friends and family be part of creating unforgettable memories for you and your partner.

To make it even more personal, you can share details about your honeymoon plans, such as the destinations you hope to visit, the activities you’re excited to try, and how their contributions will make your trip extra special.

In this way, everyone who contributes will feel connected to your journey and the joy of your new life together.



Ultimately, it depends on your own preferences and what feels right for your special day. Whichever route you choose, remember that the true gift is the love and support of your family and friends as they celebrate this joyous occasion with you.


Thanks for reading!

More to follow again soon!


Best wishes,

Laura & Katja




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